The #1 Thing that Will Hold You Back

#1 thing that holds us backIT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT IS BEFORE YOU

No matter where you are at in life, not doing this will hold you back. No matter if things are going well or if you are struggling, if you don’t do this you remain where you are. No matter what opportunities come your way, if you neglect to do this, each and every one will pass you by.

WE LOOK OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES FOR THE ANSWER

Searching outside of ourselves for the answer to change life, to improve life, to get the ‘golden ticket’ in life, to make ourselves stronger, healthier, smarter, or wealthier is a multi-billion dollar business. Yes … people who are no smarter or better than you or me, have made their millions off of people like us who are constantly looking to re-event or improve our lot in life. Do their books, programs, lectures, or retreats work? Yes… but only if…

THE #1 THING THAT HOLDS US BACK

There is usually only one reason these books and programs won’t work and it is because “the student” isn’t ready to do the work. I know that may be a stretch for some people to understand or accept, but it’s true. You can attend all the seminars in the world and you could push yourself to read a book a day… BUT if you fail to take action, you remain in exactly the same place as you are. You MUST take action. There is no way around it!

IT ISN’T EASY – I GET THAT

Doing the work of healing or transforming or rebuilding one’s life is not easy. I understand that. It’s bloody hard.  It’s usually a long road of tears and angst and really, and if given the choice who wants to trudge through the mud? Well, that’s the problem… unless you trudge through the mud, you stay stuck in it and that means you continue to live with exactly the kind of life you have.

IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE LIFE – TAKE ACTION

There is no cure for your loss or the grief journey. But the work you do to heal will open a door to get to the other side of your sadness.  The work you do to achieve higher education or training will result in bigger, brighter opportunities. Getting out and meeting people in social settings will bring you friends, and maybe help to find a soulmate. The extra hours you work or the extra job you take will dissolve your debt or pay for a vacation. The more you reach out to help others, the better you will feel about you and life in general. The more you take action, the more you gain.

Action – pure and simple.

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